Before After Life
Prepare for your own ending.
Leave the people you love with clarity.
When someone dies, the people left behind often have to make decisions without knowing what they wanted. Before After Life gives you a private place to make your wishes, messages, memories and plans clear.
When you are gone,
people should not have to guess.
Not what you wanted.
Not where anything is.
Not what you would have said.
How it works
Five parts of one preparation
- 01My WishesWhat do I want?
- 02My MessagesWhat do I want them to hear?
- 03My LifeWhat do I want remembered?
- 04My GoodbyeWhat do I want afterward?
- 05My PlanWhat needs to be done?
You do not have to do them in order, and you do not have to finish. One wish, one message or one memory is a real thing to have left behind.
Your life. Your wishes. Your data.
Everything you write stays in your own browser, on this device. Nothing is sent to Dream x Destiny. You can export it or delete all of it whenever you want.
What that means exactlyIf you are not sure where to begin
Your host
Lumi
I am Lumi. I can help you work out what to prepare first, what you might be forgetting, and what a question really means before you answer it. I am not a lawyer, and I will say so when a professional is the right next step.
Know the limits
Before After Life helps you organise and write down your wishes. It is not a law firm and it is not a substitute for professional advice. What you write here does not automatically become a legally valid will - requirements vary by country and situation. Availability and legality of burial, cremation and memorial options also vary by location.
It is also not a crisis service. If you are thinking about ending your life, please contact a local crisis line or emergency number.